Denise and Donna, otherwise known as the Clydesdale Ladies,
are relatively new boarders. Like
Queenie, their huge mare and gelding are rescues. I mentioned one day that I didn’t know much
about Queenie’s history before she was with the Arabbers. “If only she could talk,” I lamented. Denise and Donna immediately told me about
the animal communicator that “spoke” with their two Clydesdales, Mandy and
Mason. They offered to ask her to come
to the farm to speak to our horses.
I confess that I am highly skeptical of people who claim
they can speak to animals or the deceased.
I generally regard it as a money-making scam. However, Donna and Denise assured me that
the communicator did not charge. They
had given her a donation, but that was completely optional.
Once I heard that the communicator was “free,” I was on
board. I thought it would be an
entertaining afternoon, sort of like watching a mind-reading act. After the date was set, however, I found out that I had
another commitment so I asked to have the communicator meet with Queenie first and
then I could leave immediately after.
Before the communicator arrived, I did a little research to gain an understanding of how animal communication (theoretically) works. I got this information from the website of another animal communicator (http://www.askyouranimals.com/)
Queenie was busy eating a flake of hay when the communicator arrived. I only told her Queenie’s name in order not to influence their “conversation.” The communicator asked Queenie if she could enter her stall, saying to me that she always asked the horse’s permission to come in. The communicator bent down close to Queenie’s head while she continued munching. The communicator asked if I had any questions for Queenie. Of course, I said that I wanted to know if she was happy.
Before the communicator arrived, I did a little research to gain an understanding of how animal communication (theoretically) works. I got this information from the website of another animal communicator (http://www.askyouranimals.com/)
How does animal communication work?
Animal communication, or inter-species telepathic communication, is the
process of transferring thoughts, images and feelings from one party to
another using extrasensory perception. Animals are able to relay a
surprising depth and variety of information about themselves and their
environment, including physical sensations, emotions and perceptions.
The transfer of information using telepathy is like the sound and picture
waves generated by telephone, radio and television transmitters. You
can’t see or feel them, yet they surround us all of the time and can be
accessed in an instant when we tune to the right channel.
Accessing this telepathic field is a skill that comes naturally to all
animals, including the human animal. We as humans, with thousands of
years of verbal language orientation, have largely forgotten this skill.
Animals, however, remain strongly connected and are skilled telepathic
communicators.
Misunderstandings frequently arise between humans and animals because we
do not “hear” one another accurately. Our animals are broadcasting their
needs and we are not tuned in to their channel.
Queenie was busy eating a flake of hay when the communicator arrived. I only told her Queenie’s name in order not to influence their “conversation.” The communicator asked Queenie if she could enter her stall, saying to me that she always asked the horse’s permission to come in. The communicator bent down close to Queenie’s head while she continued munching. The communicator asked if I had any questions for Queenie. Of course, I said that I wanted to know if she was happy.
Not surprisingly, the communicator said that Queenie told
her she was very content. The
communicator then laughed and said that Queenie was the perfect name for my
girl since, “on the outside, she appears to be strong and in control. However, on the inside she is a real
marshmallow.” The communicator stated
that Queenie’s passive personality was a defense mechanism against all the
uncertainty in her life.
Score one for the communicator.
In fact, I felt like Queenie had a difficult time bonding
with me. Undoubtedly, her experiences
had told her not to trust or care about a person because soon enough she would
be shipped off to a new home. I used to
describe Queenie’s expression as “flat.”
I would see other horses in the barn with bright eyes and inquisitive
natures while Queenie just seemed to say, “I’ll go along with whatever you want,
but I’m not going to enjoy it because it won’t last.”
It took months of love and patience on my part, but I
finally began to see a glimmer of life in her eyes. As you can see by these recent photos, I
think we have an amazing bond now.
Queenie went on to tell the communicator that she knew she
was the center of my world because I had endured such heartache in the past
year.
Okay, score another one for the communicator.
My family always has and always will be the main focus of my
life but Queenie is the center of my world in the sense that I live on the farm
where I board her. It allows me to spend far more time with her than other people who board their horses. And yes, I had some personal ups and downs over
the past year.
Number three for the communicator followed quickly when she
said that Queenie told her that our first few months together had been “bumpy.”
That was definitely true.
As I’ve mentioned in earlier blog postings, I had a 43-year hiatus from
riding. When I got Queenie, the only
thing I was certain of was that the head was at one end of the horse and the
tail at the other. I felt like
everything I had learned about riding as a teenager was completely wrong. So I was unlearning as well as learning. Yep, Queenie was right, there were lots of “bumpy”
days.
I asked the communicator to see if Queenie could provide any
details about her early life. She said that Queenie remembers being very young
and in a field with several other young horses.
There also was a young girl who was important in Queenie’s life. The communicator also said that Queenie was
not always her name.
Score another one for the communicator. I could feel my skepticism starting to slip a
little.
All horses that come in to Days End Farm Horse Rescue
receive new names to symbolize getting a fresh start on life. The communicator said she was having a hard
time getting Queenie to say what her name was before she arrived at Days
End. After several minutes, the
communicator said, “Daisy. Her name was
Daisy.” Now, I swear that I am not
exaggerating this but as she said the name, Queenie’s ears went straight back
as if she was angry.
Now it was starting to get creepy.
Remember, that at this point I still had not given the
communicator any information about Queenie.
So you can imagine my shock when the communicator said, “Queenie says
she remembers being taken to an auction.”
I was already feeling a little weepy after the communicator mentioned my
difficult year but the image of Queenie at an auction made me cry because it is
probably true that the Arabbers had purchased her at the New Holland auction. I could just imagine how frightening all the
noise and confusion must have been for her. If you have the stomach for it, you can read one person's description of New Holland here.
New Holland Auction in Pennsylvania. Queenie would have been brought in through this livestock entrance. |
Thinking about Queenie in these crowded, frightening conditions made me cry. |
Thankfully, the Arabbers were there to purchase Queenie because that eventually brought her to me. |
I have talked to many people, including my vet who treated the few remaining Arabber horses, and they said that the Arabbers typically went to
the New Holland auction to acquire their cart horses because the Amish often
bring their horses there when they are “done with them.” It would make sense that Queenie could have
been an Amish cart horse and so she would have been a perfect fit to pull a produce cart for the
Arabbers. One of the other barn ladies
asked me if it was true that Queenie had been sold at auction. I held back
tears and nodded yes.
The communicator leaned down for further “conversation” with
Queenie. After a few minutes, the
communicator stood up and said to me, “Queenie says you tense up your shoulders
when you ride.”
Oh crap, that’s (embarrassingly) true too.
Though she is gaited, Queenie has difficulty sustaining a smooth gait. When she decides to trot instead of gait, it's like sitting
on top of a jackhammer—or at least that’s the way it feels with my perpetually
painful back (due to a slipped disk). And yes, we can also chalk
the tense shoulders up to inexperience on my part.
I wasn’t able to stay to hear the communicator's talks with some of the
other horses and one dog. However, the
owners have told me that many times she was spot-on. I laughed when I heard, for example, that Zoe’s horse, Deja told the communicator that she had nothing to say to
her. That is so Deja. She’s a feisty little Arab who has absolutely
no problem letting you know how she feels about things. I could almost hear Deja saying, “F… off and
by the way, don't touch me and get out of my stall.”
Zoe asked the communicator to find out why Deja hates
trailer loading. The communicators
reported reading of Deja’s thoughts was way off. She told Zoe that she got a mental image
of Deja in a show ring with streamers and children’s voices. Deja has never been shown. Far from it.
She was rescued from a horrible situation. A breeder ran into financial difficulties and
simply turned Deja and all the other mares and stallions out into a field
together. She did not provide food or
any form of care. Deja had two foals by
the time she was four years old. It’s a
testament to Deja’s fiery temperament that she was able to keep her two foals
alive while many of the others were killed by the stallions.
So did Deja’s lack of willingness to chat mean that the
communicator could not correctly interpret Deja’s thoughts? Or did the communicator simply take a wild guess and
miss by a mile?
One of the horses told the communicator that she had been
owned by a woman who became very ill and so she had to give the horse to our
barn owner. That was 100% accurate. I’m not sure I can attribute that to
coincidence, lucky guesses or reading cues from the owner.
Am I any less skeptical about some humans being able to talk to and understand animals? I would say that I remain fairly convinced that it can’t happen. The problem is that I cannot explain how the communicator was able to accurately report details about the horses. Is she just really good at reading people and getting hints from what we say and how we act? In my case, I made it a point to say practically nothing to the communicator.
Am I any less skeptical about some humans being able to talk to and understand animals? I would say that I remain fairly convinced that it can’t happen. The problem is that I cannot explain how the communicator was able to accurately report details about the horses. Is she just really good at reading people and getting hints from what we say and how we act? In my case, I made it a point to say practically nothing to the communicator.
So I still don't know the answer to the question "Animal Communication: Fact or Fabrication?" I’d be interested in hearing other bloggers perspectives and
experiences.